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I am placed as a middle child in a family.According to Forer,the middle child comes to be more capable than the younger siblings and they turn themselves to the older siblings for help and they obtained help from them.
On the other hand,Withers said that middle child is often self-examining,less likely to take initiative,more worries and self-critical than others.They are calm and loveable.
Its somehow, less related to my birth order.As i sees about myself is less responsible than older siblings and more than younger siblings.I am a easy going person,have a ability to do something more than the younger siblings.I am a reserved and shy person.I am helpful,calm, loveable and people like me as well.

How accurate is the authors description of your family birth order

MY FAMILY 

The author's description of my family birth order is mostly accurate .Me,my sister and my brother are consider as a middle child.Author said that middle child comes to think of  himself as sometimes better able to do things than other people because they are usually more capable than their younger siblings.Also when they need help,they turn to older siblings or to a parent.I found the similarities on my birth order.The oldest child in my family is my brother and he is responsible,parental as author describes the same thing that the oldest child struggles to be parental,more capable and more responsible than the younger children. About the youngest child,he said they are less able to do many things than other people and are always others around to look after and take care of them.So my youngest brother is also less capable,irresponsible and disorganized.Over all looking at the authors description of the birth order,he is somehow right about the family birth order.In some cases,there will be opposite than what we are thinking.Some child are responsible in their early age.So,it depends on the environment  where we grew up and the place,their people.Every child has some different attitudes and behavior towards others.Very rarely child has the same kind of behavior.

The story of my family and how it relates to a birth order.

My names is Urgen Dolma and we are seven family members. I have one elder sister ,two eldest brother and one youngest  brother.I am the middle child. Oldest child in my family is my brother Tenzin.Then comes my second older brother ,my sister, me and my youngest brother( Gyaltsen).We were all in same school.Most of the time I spent my time with my youngest brother  because we were day students and others were in hostel.I found my oldest brother as a responsible,parental,more capable.My second oldest brother is more patient,easy going,responsible too.My sister is a middle child and she is smart, confident, under pressure.Then comes me,the middle child as well and I am more capable, patient.My youngest brother is lazy, annoying ,irresponsible,disorganized ,carefree.